It’s never easy to go into detail about the trauma that shapes your life. Even so, Rainey’s essay poignantly introduces readers to one of the most pivotal moments of his childhood: the day his mother went to prison. “When the U.S. Secret Service followed us home from Burger King in 2005,” he says, “I knew something was not right.”
Rainey doesn’t dwell on his mother’s story, though. Instead, he focuses on his grandmother and the community that came together to give him a fresh start in life. He speaks of his grandmother’s life thesis: that “service and kindness to others is the rent you pay for your room here on Earth.”
Rainey goes on to discuss how his encounter with the U.S. Secret Service, the criminal justice system, and a caring community shaped his interests as a young person. He spent his high school years volunteering.
He primarily served as a teen attorney in youth court, where he worked with teenagers addressing minor legal infractions. Those efforts bore fruit, eventually winning him the Teen Court Values Award for over 150 hours of service. Moreover, that time in court paved the way for Rainey’s compassionate future.